Fresh start, Fresh Mindset: A letter to my Fellow Freshers

Precious Omidokun

Starting university is like opening door into a new world. At first, everything feels strange— the buildings, the people, the daily routines. Maybe you once find yourself missing your way back to the hostel or hesitating before asking a fellow student for directions to a lecture hall. Slowly, things begin to make sense. The University of Ibadan is no longer just a place we heard about. It is becoming our home.

Now that we have spent a few weeks in this new environment, the initial rush has likely settled. No more JJC. Some of us have started to find our way around while others are still adjusting. Either way, we are all part of this new chapter.

A new environment calls for new ways of living. Everyone will find their own path. Some of us hold on to the home trainings we brought from home while some are discovering new behaviours and attitudes, like deciding to attend a campus event just to feel part of the crowd, flipping your hair and dancing along with new friends. Both choices come with lessons to learn.

What matters most is remembering why we are here. It is not untrue that part of the reasons we are here came with dreams of freedom. We wanted to escape strict home tutelage and enjoy life on our own terms. That freedom is real. For the first time, you are like a bird with unclipped wings.

Still, freedom comes with responsibility. Our main purpose remains the same. We are here to study. Our academics are the foundation for the future we want.

To make the most of this freedom, we need to learn when to enjoy it and when to hold back. Some students came to explore and create memories. We all arrived with different goals.

But one truth applies to everyone. What we prioritise outside academics will shape our time here. It will either be a wise investment or a waste of effort and sacrifice. Many of us dream of earning First Class degrees. Not everyone will get there. Distractions can quietly pull us off the path. No one will force us to stay focused.

University life gives us freedom to make choices. It is a place to think critically and build discipline.

Time management is key. Being a fresher means facing many new demands. There are lectures to attend, spiritual growth to nurture, hygiene and health to maintain, social activities to join, and extracurriculars to explore. It can be overwhelming. Managing time well helps balance all of these. When you plan carefully, nothing suffers. For instance, allocate specific times for studying, attending lectures, and participating in social activities. Set realistic goals and prioritise tasks based on importance and urgency.

Pressure is real for everyone. But we choose how it affects us. If you have a clear purpose, you will not give in to negative pressure. Choose to be a positive influence in your hall, classroom, and friendships. Avoid distractions that seem fun now but bring regret later.

Health matters more than we often realise. Our bodies are our greatest wealth. Eat well, drink water, and rest when you need to.

Avoid unnecessary stress. Go to the clinic when you are sick. Take your health seriously. Self-care is part of success.

In addition to physical health, mental well-being is crucial. University life can be challenging, and it is essential to prioritise your mental health. Seek help when needed, and don’t hesitate to talk to friends, family, or counsellors about your struggles.

To all freshers reading this, here is my sincere advice. Keep your eyes on your goal. If you want a First Class degree, pursue it with intention.

Do not let distractions pull you off course. Remember to take care of yourself and make the most of your time here.

From finding your way to the hostel to dancing freely at your first campus event, every moment counts. Let us seize the day and make our time in the University of Ibadan truly worthwhile.

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